Attended church and were religiously active.At the age of 13 my mother found out I was gay. We as Christians are taught that God is Love, that he loves all things, never stops loving us, and loves everyone even with our faults. Heck let's Tar & Feather those parents. I don't feel different, because I am NOT different. As a mom with children the same age as yours, I could not agree with you more.Any parent who could kick their child to the street, even if he or she did something they should not have done (which 99.7% of children will do at some point in their life), should not be a parent. dear seething mom, thank you for your blog. I will remain unconvinced until I hear from a reliable source that Jonathan's story is a complete lie. I will remain anonymous aswell to avoid drama. As a mom of 3 children, I cannot even imagine how horrible losing one of them would be.I wavered a bit on publishing your comment with your private information in it. "I agree.You say: "To be gay, to be gifted, to be black, to be short, when you are different from the rest of the people you live with, family, society, school, job, you are always mistreated because of your difference. It obviously worked, unfortunately. I did not break off contact because of their sexual orientation. This year she just started med school and the other two are in successful relationships and jobs. But I have seen Jonathan's story repeated more times than I can count, which is why I find him believable. I don't know how to say it any other way but a rage. Sign your name, provide some links to back up your claims, and check your anger at the door. I have to put my in mytwo cents worth after reading most of the comments. I then asked her why then do babies get AIDS. But on the off-chance that you and Anon#1's accusations hold some bit of truth (again, posting anonymously and providing nothing but indignation are not enough to prove anything), I will address this issue on the front page. God says. loves those as you would love yourself. "This statement is where you go off the rails Luis and completely give yourself away. I was shocked when she told me if her son "turned out gay," she would disown him. His Mother Was Born in St. Kitts in the Caribbean. Hecurrently lives in Anniston, Alabama. His dad gave him examples of the work ethic of elite athletes, such as how Ray Lewis played football with a controlled rage. "It was kind of hard when your dad is saying he thinks you're the best and a coach is really advising me to come back," Allen said. I find it curious how lost people get on the subject of the Christianity vs homosexuality; and it's on both sides. This week I talked with 21-year-old singer Jonathan Allen, who touched our hearts singing his way into the semifinals on America's Got Talent. I don't understand the concept of "gay culture". And like you Elna, I cannot imagine any scenario in which I would kick any of my children out. He wanted to play more. I don't know. 4. Because I'm not going to take something so polarizing at face value. but that doesn't mean we should sit back and let it be. I am a Christian. "He's very, very loyal and conscientious.". You are deflecting from the story as to why his parents disowned him. Every fetus is asexual. Akshay Bhatia Parents- Sister Rhea Bhatia, Does Daniil Medvedev Have A Brother? Allen was drafted by Washington in the first round of the 2017 NFL Draft. This site does have its fair share of nasty visitors (or as we call them: trolls), but you seemed insistent, so I obliged. If Jonathan lost, he would practice and challenge his brother to compete against him again. What's happening in their bed is their business, and I accept their partner as my own friends, I don't care if it's a boy or a girl. So it wasn't hard for me to believe that Jonathan's story was true. All things evolve and it's time for religion, to either catch up, or die out. Jonathan Allen has been playing and performing music since he was in the third grade. I just think that I still have a lot to learn.I'm young, I still have a lot to go through, but I feel that I can express myself in this blog because of the similarities that Jonathan and I have. [34] In December 2022, he was voted into his second consecutive Pro Bowl. But I am here to tell you that there is truth to both sides of the story. But when Allen, unlike many other freshmen, didn't lose weight during his first fall camp, Saban decided to move him to the defensive line, which was Allen's preference despite not knowing how to line up in a three-point stance just a couple years earlier. A custody battle ensued between Allen's father and mother. From the outside looking in, it can be so easy to judge a situation by just believing what we hear. He still holds Stone Bridge's record for rebounds in a game (28). Oh well, I guess thats enough preaching, what do I know? I just cannot fathom how painful rejection by one's own family can be. I'm not going to say That his actions were wrong seeing as it takes a pretty worthless family to do that to their own son, and although I am not gay nor have been persecuted by my own family, I can say I would have done that or worse out of rebellion and anger. I came out when I was 16, my parents accepted it very well, and they never made any difference between me or my straight brother and sisters ! Anything that sells and captures the viewers attention is part of the game. I just found others who became my family. My friends are my friends, no matter their orientation, it's their private life. I have 3 young men in my life that I spent all of my time with. Now he's got a real family. Madelyn Allen's harrowing text to parents to warn them before - The Sun Obviously, this wasn't my choice, but due to their belief system, they couldn't have me around. Didnt mean to get so lobg winded, and I know my comment isnt really on topic, but I just wanted everyone to take a moment and think before you speak or type for that matter. So if you don't like it, get out. You are right Anon, being gay should not define Jonathan, but if I were going to be cynical here, I'd say that maybe the show did see a guy with talent, who has a sad story to tell, and a villain(s). Do we choose to live a life of how we were raised, or do we do the uncomfortable thing and stand up for what is right? Why would Jonathan get on national tv and lie? There is no defending kicking a son out for being gay at the age of 18. The Life Summary of Jonathan. That's all, Hi everyone. I had to do what I thought was best for me.". The present and future are bright for Allen. Allen liked trying new sports at Stone Bridge. [35], Allen married his wife, Hannah, in July 2018. It is the issue, not his shenanigans. At no point in my life did I make the decision to be straight. She was 19 and moved from California to S Carolina to live with her mom after not being welcomed back. However. as a parent that is placing a roof over their heads past the age of 18 it was MY rules or move. That was the first sign to Allen's father how special his son might be. You can read horrible things about gays, mainly because of religious view. Josh's parents instilled work ethic in their children by encouraging them to participate in cultivating their 2000-acre farm. Logan, are you the favorite kid in the family? I felt ashamed.I hope he can reconnect with his family and he and they can just love each other. Jonathan Allen played 16 games last season and 85 games over his career. If you know more info then continue reading this article. Every single night you will cry and regret leaving your in rebel gifted son. My oldest was never kicked out and at almost 20 decided she and her girlfriend wanted to live together. He was named first-team All-SEC after recording 33 tackles and 5.5 sacks. [28][29] After recording a sack in the Week 15 game against the Philadelphia Eagles, he set a new career high of 8.5 sacks in a single-season. I was raised in a devout Christian home and homosexuality was a sin that was treated like a plague. whether or not there is another side to Johnathons story it doesn't matter the fact is his parents kicked him out and no matter what he does that does not give you the right to disown him.BTW I am 16 years old i supported my friend through a part time job in case anybody was wondering. God loves us all. One may say that they could never do this to a relative but the sad an unfortunate truth is that you do not know until the situation touches you.My parents(since passed)were evangelical Christians. Jonathan Allen - Political Reporter and Senior Political Analyst - NBC Allen drew a rare unsportsmanlike conduct penalty late in the College Football Playoff Semifinal game last week against Washington as emotions flared. Jonathan Allen Ethnicity, Height, Weight, And if you know something most scientists in the world don't know, then you need to show us the results of your years of scientific research and study because as of today, there is absolutely NO scientific consensus on why some people are born gay. Bravo Jonathon and may your career take you to stardom and beyond! And there has been enough of a reaction that I have to believe there is a lot we may not know. Bottom line, I believe homosexuals and heterosexuals are equal in the sight of God and both are bound by the same laws. The Allen brothers had to get straight A's to play football. Allen, then, lost his cool and swung through Paynes head before being separated by other members of the defensive line and the coach sitting nearby. and the Children of Fallen Patriots Foundation to meet with 15 students who have lost parents who served in the military. "Jonathan's version of this was he was told to play every play as if it's the last play of the Super Bowl and everybody is depending on him to make the game-winning stop at the goal line," Richard said. The player has repeatedly stated that he wants to find his mother, whom he lost contact with since his third grade. I know that there are many parents who would/do kick their children out, yet far many more who do not. and i would not mind if he was gay. Regardless he is one of lawrenceburgs own and we continue to support him. He isn't gay, but if he was, I would welcome his partner as I would a daughter in law. Those who wish to converse without identifying themselves should not be believed under any circumstances, even if they later decide to reveal their identity.Just saying, Mark, your story is so tragic and all too common. It's the power of sharing stories and how that impacts people's lives and how that kind of gives people hope, hearing about other people's stories and what they're going through. It created an unnecessary fuss within the teams. Breakout Star from AGT Season 8 Jonathan Allen | Los Angeles CA During Washingtons Sunday night loss to Dallas Cowboys, Allen took a full swing at his former Alabama teammate. It's kind of funny. I'm disabled so very unsteady on my feet. All the families have problems.God allowed them to find a common path. He got his start in journalism as a copy editor and fill-in reporter with the Prince William Journal in Manassas, Va. But I'd go just a bit farther and say that no child should have to grow up with what we grew up with. For now, there's still one more game for Allen to avoid losing. I love them the same and they are me best friends. Thank you for taking the time to write such an eloquent and well thought out comment. But Bird believed he succeeded because his father made him take 100 shots on a different spot of the court every day before coming home. I refused to give her solace in this last moment because she still insisted her belief in what she did as "Right".Before you go and judge me for my actions concerning my Mother, I must state I am an Atheist. Politicians were elected & the new batch of 'Flower Children' had moved on to another cause to exploit so they wouldn't have to actually do anything constructive to solve problems in the world, except 'demonizing' others. The six-footer American footballer, Jonathan Allen, works as a defensive tackle for the Washington Football Team of the NFL (National Football League). On the advancement of LGBT equality in America, Jonathan added: We kind of live in a country where the advancement of LGBT equality has evolved over time. For a while, Jonathan's father didn't know how good his son could be in football. Things get heated, we fix them, we sit down as grown men and move on., Ill take full responsibility for my actions, and so will Payne.. I hope I don't get crucified here. But because it has been, I do believe we all need to step back, take a breath and see what comes out. . When a woman and a man decide to have sex, they may create something, a responsibility, a Jonathan Allen. A heterosexual who commits fornication has no space to judge a homosexual who does the same. fake christians gotta love em.only they will be forgiven. Or a rapist? "No idea where she lives. No matter who the first two anons were, they were stating facts and that is no reason to attack them and call them a liar seeing as you are clueless as far as this topic goes. We give birth to our children and bring them up in the best way that we can. I hope regardless of Jonathan's hidden background, you can open up your minds to see a defenceless kid who was shunned the opportunity at a parent's embrace. Allen lives a luxurious life with expensive cars, a big bungalow and travels in exotic locations. Where was Jonathan Allen born? Allenwho is poised to cover the 2016 presidential campaignrecently published HRC: State Secrets and the Rebirth of Hillary Clinton with coauthor Amie Parnes. They lived in a foster building with about 30 children. "Judge not lest ye be judged!" Seething Mom Bravo to you for believe in the good of each person and for speak and fight for the rights of each person. if he did horrible acts like anon says then he can say he is sorry and they can forgive him that. Allen was born in Anniston, Alabama, and lived in Seattle, North Carolina, South Carolina, Pittsburgh, and Maryland before settling down in Ashburn, Virginia, where he attended Stone Bridge High School. I think that people are allowed to think and live exactly the way the want, as long as they are not hurting anyone else. He is claiming that these are his personal experiences, which he would naturally have first-hand knowledge about. So I didn't experience the ugly stuff I see that goes on in some circles and on the internet.People are standing up to it but not enough. This is not the place for you.Love you Lori, thank you for coming by and commenting. He did mention his parents supported him and his music, everyone knows he had to have some if not all help from his family and it is evident he loves his parents and there is no doubt in my mind he would love for them to be with him now. He could never explain to Thompson why instinctively he would spin. This is not homophobia, it's just being annoyed.Sorry I was probably confusing and long and totally of topic but I really wanted to express. These people are still human and when dying still emotional on leaving the ones they love.So forget the society stigma and love everyone for who they are. [10] He was ranked as the top defensive tackle by Sports Illustrated, Pro Football Focus, and NFLDraftScout.com. I would still help and guide him to stay close to God who loves us, in spite of us, and to him help to find his life employment so he can support himself instead of living on the streets. But until these morons have walked in the shoes of people like you and Mark, their criticisms are worthy of nothing but contempt and mockery.I am sorry if my anger offends anyone (well - not really), but I give fair warning at the top of my blog to anyone who visits that I am a seething mama and this is the place in which I vent. It's not the same of course, but thank goodness there are people in the world that will be there when your own aren't.Just look out for the Christian Right Anti gay Organizations. Where is she?". Total suprise they still act the exact same! Allen was even voted to the 2022 Pro Bowl in December 2021. This article will cover important details about the well-known celebritythose ranging from his early life to his professional career. I'm also not saying I'm the ideal child. The agreement was of a whopping $72 million. Have you contacted his family and asked if Jonathan's accusations were honest? There have been some comments and emails alluding to the fact that Jonathan did some things that angered his parents and that is why he was thrown out. Allen was born into a military family and was just 2 years old when his parents divorced. If this ends up creating problems for you, please let me know and I will take the private info out.And lastly, you are a wonderful dad, your son was so blessed to have you, and I can imagine that seeing this amazing and talented young man, Jonathan, tell his story must have been especially painful for you. Almost all the guys we put in Division I have gone on to start. But on the good side, the two are adamant about not letting this linger any further. Born in Silver Spring, Md., Jon attended St. Mary's College in Southern Maryland, where he played baseball, and graduated from the University of Maryland in 1998. To put it simply, your bigotry shines through in your desperate attempts to defend the parents of Jonathan. The Fairfield Police Department arrested Rogers' 29-year-old husband Jonathan Michael Allen on Friday after a six-week investigation. My experience as a gay man is that I have seen the "hatred" by God fearing people firsthand. He had transferred from Western Branch High School in Chesapeake, and his father said he had no idea they were moving into a school district with a football power. His parents have supported him and paid for Rehab, gotten him jobs, lived as prisoners in their own home, all to try to help him, but he will not help himself.