i love this episode! Thats just unreal. why why why? I agree with Dorky Dancer, I dont see what she could have done in this situation which would have been in line with her character. Like, where did they go when they left or more importantly what happened once they left. Maybe that was the theme of the evening. Paul Lieberstein didn't just play Toby Flenderson, he was also a writer and producer for the show. Last Just Phyllis and Dad. After an hour, I figured I was in the wrong theatre, but I kept waiting. The clich is the storyline; that always has been a clich, and it didnt bother me as long as peoples behavior made sense. They arent giving us typical soap opera-ish cliches here to keep them separated. Websters Dictionary defines wedding as fusing two peices of metal together with a torch. Well, I wasnt happy with this one. Just enjoy it. And you're nervous. Creed got his moment to shine (that was funny). The biggest draw you have is the now standard sappy, unrequited romance bit that nearly every sitcom has pulled ever since Ross and Rachel. For other uses, see Phyllis (disambiguation) Phyllis Vance (ne Lapin), is played by Phyllis Smith in the television series The Office. JAM refers to the relationship of Jim and PAM, welcome to world of The Office. Theyre friendship really hasnt been the same and even when they DID find their footing again, the next thing Pam hears is that Jim has not only told Karen about them, but also deemed their kiss just a kiss. I hope thats not too forward :-). I think we should all try to ignore them from week to week and move on, focus on the other aspects of the show. wtf is up with pam?! I lost my train of thought. While she may have been giving Jim signals at the wedding he wasnt giving her anything so how could she possibly know how he feels, especially after his comment to her in the break room in front of Kelly and Ryan in the last episode? The whole first part during the actual ceremony well just chalk up to his screwed-up childhood episode. Phyllis Lapin Vance is the older and caring mother-like figure of the office. It was one of his talking heads. You people are looking at this all wrong. You might be surprised to learn that Ive only been to one other wedding. One of the top episodes of the series. 320: How did you manage to watch the episode without commercials? She wasnt being weak, or frustrated, or giving up. People in and out of relationships, and still liking someone else consistently through those other relationships, HAPPENS!!! The show depends on this. Gorfy i know wut u mean but u cant say this is one of their faults more than the other !! . And I really like season 3, so thats saying a lot! I thought they only played the Police. . But Pam doesnt know that, and Roy probably doesnt even know that either. He wants his Karen and his Pam, too? I read a couple of comments that JAM has become a bit of a soap opera and that the writers should end this. There were a bunch of great little moments, too. Maybe hes a different guy. I Googled it, Yahooed it, even asked Jeves but nothing! Also Im going to need to see a copy of the guest manifest as well as photographs of the caterers. I cant take it anymore. John, I agree with you. Im sure therell be an awkward confrontation between Jim and Pam that vaguely references the re-appearance of Roy. damn it!!!! Im sorry, it gives me no pleasure. I would have loved to have seen the Pavlov bit fresh, but that was my choice to watch the spoiler. In order to get six weeks' leave for her honeymoon, Phyllis asked Michael to be in the wedding party, which ramps his social awkwardness up to eleven. So basically, I am co-giving away the bride. Anyway Im thinking that Roy knew that about her and thats why he led her outside so they could dance and shed be comfortable. This is the third wedding that Scrantonicity has played. Bob Vance: If you ever lay a finger on Phyllis, Ill kill you. Okay, I know Im stupid. He has matured a lot and has been a real gentleman (just look at how he handled the stripper situation last week!) Hes mopey and hangdog and there isnt anything fun about him anymore. it sounds so familiar and omg, i love it. She seems too nice of a person to hurt someone elses feelings if it is not necessary. After all, he misinterpreted everything last time. Michael: Phyllis and Bob, their celebrity couple name would be Phylob. Michael reminded me of Adrian Monk this night, not Michael Scott. So sad. And someone FINALLY stood up to Michael! But Karen really is perfect (on paper) for Jim. More Stanley! I was understandably emotional and somehow my pants became wet. It would be cool if Michael had him sent to an anger management course after his wall punching incident. It is unclear what happened to her after this episode. you guys know that the bob vance, vance refrigeration came from a friend of greg daniels who introduced himself as hayes macarthur. Sorry I know this is all about The Office but I just have to say that Scubs is still awesome show. :). The writers DO have a plan, and eventually (I think someone said this in an earlier comment) well go ah now, I see when its all said and done. Its barely been 14 hours and almost 500 comments already? The chicken? She was at a wedding with all of HER wedding choices around every corner, including the man she was going to marry. anyway, does anyone know where this is from? Perhaps the best Office moment ever: Toby. Sometimes I wish that this show wasnt on network tv. And I dont really know how to respond to the idea that Karen is acting out of character because no one really *knows* Karen or how she acts in relationships when they are failing. We are a great team. Shes a character who needs someone to push her in a direction. SEE THE DELETED SCENES OR POSTS FROM LAST WEEKS SHOW. Who is Phyllis Coates dating? Phyllis Coates boyfriend, husband Being rejected is part of the territory. " Phyllis' Wedding " is the sixteenth episode of the third season of the American comedy television series The Office, and the show's 44th overall. Well I only saw the last 5 minutes, but it was enough for me to be even MORE frustrated with JAM than I was after seeing the spoilers. Ryan pushing the bouquet away from Kelly. I know. . Are we really supposed to buy the fact that his family holds weddings in their graves? The end. That smile he gave while waving the cell-phone camera was so affected. For the last couple of weeks Ive been conducting a similar experiment. Im not saavy enough (nor do I care enough, I guess) to make one of those youtube music videosso this is the best way for me to tell others. I think there will be one painting that will have something to do with Jim. Or at least more likable than she is fine. youre way off. It seems like they are less complex than they were and that season 3s real difference is that it is plot-driven. Phyllis' Wedding | Dunderpedia: The Office Wiki | Fandom Favorite Moments: Jim commented about how cute she was when she dances well yes, perhaps Pam could have asked him to dance at that point. It would be hard for anyone to blow him off, especially when he was being so sweet. Im sure Phyllis was invited to Pam & Roys wedding so Im sure she felt obligated to invite Roy to hers? I like a women that is outgoing and gets on stage to have a little fun! Well whoop-de-do. It wont take long for Roys true colors to show. toby's wedding date the office actress Michael has always been an ass (Diversity Day), Dwight has always been weird (Health Care), Jim and Pam cant communicate to save their lives (Hot Girl). Phyllis is getting married. Im going to jump on board and say that I agree with some of the comments and the questioning of Season 3. I just really hope Pams art is more telling than she is. Hell be back in May, and hes be signed as a full-time cast member. She clearly likes and gets along with Karen. Im not disappointed in the show. Its questions like these questions will keep me up at night. i mean, shes been waiting for jim to come along, and i guess shes realized its not going to just happen. Michael holds an auction to raise money for all the items lost. Well, you know something. She needs the right moment to say somthing to him. It originally aired on October 8, 2009 on NBC in the United States. :D. I have a question, I have not seen the Ben Franklin Episode yet because I was away on business, and then Watching Phyllis Wedding I didnt see Andy. Yes, all it would take would be Pam telling him how she feels, but it isnt that simple. Oh, and Michael was super annoying in this episode. I was just saying, if Jim was a thinking man and wanted to play Roys game, he would have. They need to make something happen with Pam and Jim soon or I will start forgetting to watch the show. I didnt like Ben Franklin or Phyllis wedding. . pam should have never left with roy. Its very cute. By the way, what I dont understand are the people who complain about the previews ruining the episodesif you dont want anything to be spoiled, then dont watch the previews! I know youre probably not going to remember this, right? He proclaimed he had to get her back, he snuck her out of a grief counseling session (much like Jim would do), he bought her a meaningful Christmas present, they bonded over their aborted honeymoon plans, and now they are together at what is virtually THEIR wedding reception. lol. I dont know I didnt think it was that ODD for Roy to be at the wedding. He should soften up, just as Michael should take a chill pill. Wow I agree with so many things that have been said already. The thing that surprises me most is the amount of people who seem surprised that the writers are milking the Jim/Pam romance still hasnt been reconciled. There is nothing more that Jim can do. LOL! -Michael dragging the wheelchair down the aisle Non-hypothetically happy and yet lying. she doesnt know about those confessions hes made to karen! August 21, 2022; beyond beauty wedding . Stupid roy! I like that the writers arent giving us the Jim/Pam reunion we want right *now* just because we want it right *now*. I dont like the new sensitive Roy. Biographical Information but its only a matter of time. Dwight/Angela and Ryan/Kelly were great! :). But there is so much more to the show and other moments can shine even if the JAM storyline is frustrating. They come when you least expect it. and I think he deserves a second chance from Pam. May 24, 2021. She is most likely an escort, however because Toby couldn't pick her up "at the gym". :) Loved the thing with Creed, and the throw back to the two toasters with Stanley, and everything Angela. I did. The wedding/welding joke reminded me of a similar joke from The Simpsons: HOMER: What is a wedding? The writers of the show know this, which is why they will work to keep JAM unresolved for as long as reasonably possible. Gabe or Toby as Fear, definitely Andy as Anger, Phyllis continues to be Sad, Kelly or Angela as Disgust, and Erin or Kelly as Joy. Michael makes several attempts to recapture the limelight, culminating with an overlong toast at the wedding banquet in which he impugns Phyllis' Its frustrating, absolutely but so is real life. Did he really love me? Hes tried to be more aware of whats going on in Pams life, he got her out of the conference room for a while in Grief Counseling, he apparently got her a nice Christmas present based on their little moment in the Christmas episodehe hasnt done anything that would make me say, wow, hes a jerk like the last two seasons. Cant we just see them as a happy couple, living their lives? Once again the only complaint I have is that the episode was too short! Its so realistic who wants to be getting tipsy at a wedding and having no one to dance with? Jim is seemingly *happy* with this woman. Now I know my love for her goes on, Meredith: with regards to will Pam fight for love?. I dont want to start to dislike these characters because it drags on too long. hahaha So white my eyes are burning. But how does it put her above becoming desperate in order to hold onto Jim when its obvious his heart is elsewhere? Does anyone else glad that wasnt actually Pams wedding? Michael was way over the top, but I realized why he was dragging the wheel chair. Toby got a kiss Tricia, I certainly will. It would be stupid. In the case of Phyllis and Bob, Im sure Kevin cut them a break especially considering the band doesnt get to play ALL that often and they are friends. When time is not a factor, I like to try out three or four different ones. If thats your real name. not sure if anyones noticed yet, but the first deleted scene is up! :). Pams reaction is perfectly natural. I base this 100% on her crazy singing. this is probably my sixth post And if you mean that the dialog was poor, I disagree. ahhhhhhhhhh! I kind of expected the pam/roy thing, but I think what really got to me was that jim said he was happy he was with karen, and how cute he was with his cell phone. Im sorry. This is my first post, but I love this site and I love the show. Jim: I know. Thanks. Ive been a Team JAMmer forever, and youre ruining it now. Pam goes from being spiteful about Roys inattentiveness to going home with him with little but an acknowledgement from him that he wasnt the nicest guy before. He obviously knew Pam was upset yet he made no effort to make sure she was okay then got pissed when he saw her leave with Roy. Phyllis: Thanks, Angela. However, she is seen again at the end of the season 4 episode "Dunder Mifflin Infinity". Take off your Jim-colored glasses for a secondremember that Pam doesnt see everything that we the viewer sees. SHE HAS DONE NOTHING. Exasperating! Hes gotta leave the company completely though. He is old, and has brown eyes and dementia. She made the decision to leave Roy and we havent seen her waver until now. Im gonna need some JAM soon or Im gonna die! Cloudflare Ray ID: 7c0e8965dc71addd It was pretty obvious that she left because she was upsetJim should have gone after her. But at least he managed to cheer her up when she was all depressed about Jim. Phyllis Coates is currently single.. I agree with everything you said. I can not count how many times my friends have went back with a guy because they were tired of being lonley. Great episode tonight! If thats your real name. I also agree with both of you Big Turkey and Meredith!!! Katie arrives at Bill's place and remarks on his floral display. Toby Mac's wife, Amanda Levy McKeehan, is a Jamaican-American celebrity spouse. But drawing it out over the long run is just going to make us lose respect for all involved (the characters, AND the writers.). Dude, keep it together. Maybe Phyllis and Bob invited him to even out the tables- haha. He obviously loves Pam and is not letting her rejection of him stop him from pursuing her. thanks. This must be so awful for you. Isnt that something you would do if you didnt like someone. If anything, I think shes doing a pretty good job. Dwight, ever vigilant, guards against wedding crashers. Another reason it is easy for her to fall back to that bum. Jim + Pam together = End of showdont wish too hard everyone. Answer: Push her father down the isle in his wheelchair Trivia Question: Who wins the Fun Run in season 4? If I were in Pams shoes, Id probably go home with Roy too (and not only because of his great facial hair! In NBCs defense, I think that they have actually recognized that comedy needed a new formula. Also, I like when Ryan hits the bouquet so Tobys gf gets it instead of Kelly. This was a great episode tonight and Michael was in rare form. OfficeTallys impact on The Office: the Mashable interview, The Office cast reunites for a quarantine wedding. Its actually a very cute story. My Mom was marrying Jeff. And could Karen look any more foolish?! My favorite episode from this season is still Pretzel Day, that was a classic with so many things going on in just twenty minutes of air-time. The Office fansite for NBC's hit comedy, The Office. Especially watching Jim, since as a guy I can identify with more than Pam per se. i mean he was really nice to her at the wedding but cmon everyone can see her and jim love each other. OMG. Thank you. Come on! (Wishful thinking? Heres what i need from this show: KittyKat I completely agree with you. This episode was kind of a trainwreck. i am totally starting to believe that this isnt going to go anywhere and it makes me so sad!!!! She has never been a strong leader. (I have a good friend who works for CAA and deals with these people all the time. . I thought the episode seemed a little cramped, too. The Office: The 10 Cringiest Moments In "Phyllis' Wedding" I want to add that I think Phyllis should have warned Pam that her wedding to Bob Vance was going to be almost identical to Pams plans. Toby responds that he met her at the gym. I can relate to Pam as far as being mopey and lonely and hooking up with an ex (a sort of security blanket if you will) So i wil be optimistic that RAM has not been permanently reunited, because Pam will eventually come to her senses. That was kind of mean. I never said America or Americans were dumb. Lets bury PAM and get on with our lives; There has been too much emotional strain between Jim and Pam, in our lives we would have moved on, and Karen is hot, am I right. (not that I think Angela would ever let that happen, but you know what I mean.). Theres too many people on this earth. It really is tormenting (which is the point, but we as loving viewers can only take so much pain).